If you discovered your husband masturbating to a picture of himself, how would you feel? I have a friend who enjoys masturbating while fantasizing about himself. He has some very amateur shots of him in the buff posted on his screensaver and the other day his wife walked in and found him frigging himself furiously to pictures of himself. She was totally disgusted and has talked about leaving him. He can't understand why. Any opinions? |
| WOW that is hilarious what a ego he must have and probably needs alot of feeding, I think that would be totally entertained to see such performance masturbating to a pic of himself , I would also realize that a mans body gets him off and looking down the road to the future with this guy is kinda of iffy, he has some self control issues as well , I would be a bit humiliated if that were my husband, even if my husband were doing it to a magazine the HATE would build up in me , anyway take what you can $$$$$$ before you leave the freak |
Can NOT masturbating be helpful or harmful in terms of having energy? i am an amateur boxer 17 yrs and was just wondering if not masturbating would mean that i would have more energy while training and in competition. or would this harm me? |
| It doesn't matter either way unless it interferes with sleep or eating. |
Whats that redtube video? A few years ago on redtube there was a video of 5 amateur teens masturbating each other, orgy was in the title and i cant find it, what is it?! |
Seriously?
Dane |
This question goes out to all the guys: How much would you charge? Okay, let's say someone wants to film you... you know... masturbating... for an amateur adult film that isn't quite sure if it will be distributed or not. How much would you want for your oh-so-literal 15 minutes of fame? |
| From the waist down? I'd bill myself out at $1523 per hour, so for 15 minutes, $380.75. (as long as it is paid completely in 1 cent coins, all from the same year; either 1933 or 2044) |
Do women masturbate and fantasize to ordinary men? i.e. amateur basketball players, cable men, janitors , construction workers, Ice cream vendor or people the just see in swimming pool?
How much intimacy do they really got from it? Is it just lusting on their own body? |
| Oh yeahhh because cable men are a real turn on. Oh and seeing a construction workers butt crack is so attractive . |
I am a circumcised man who every so often still masturbates-? is there a corrective surgery available which will eliminate the desire to masturbate or have any penile sensation to compensate for where the circumcision failed?
I would also like this more thorough procedure done on my sons while they are still young to remove any sensation from their penii before it is too late.
also- where can I get female circumcision performed in the us of a? I have a practitioner who is amateur but might like it done by a professional.
God's blessings upon you |
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Do i have a porn addiction if i am a virgin at my age? I have an online porn addiction (watching porn almost every night, mostly amateur sites) and masturbating to it. I get excited just thinking about it and look forward to it in life? I have no friends anymore and am mostly a loner b/c of anxiety disorder & dislike social interactions. Also, i do not really want friendships anyways. I have depression and see a therapist and on medication, therapist doesn't know about porn habit thought b/c i am too ashamed to say it aloud. IIN what I love about porn is getting watch so many others have sex and the way they do it, etc. but i am afraid of males to do it myself and have never been on a single date & am still a virgin. I am a 30 year old female btw. It seems likely I will never get to have a relationship like other girls I've seen, sigh. what is wrong with me & is there something really wrong with this porn issue or not really? ty. |
:) Hey girl. It sounds like this is really effecting you. Stressful, yeah? I know the feeling! The first thing that comes to mind is that a therapist is there to help you , not judge you. That's probably one of the safest places to share your thoughts about your porn use. It will also help your therapist be better able to help you.
That said, I think that despite what many people will tell you, it sounds like porn is contributing your anxiety and isolation. I've used porn to fill a void. The problem is that people are meant to fill that void and though it may be hard, people are going to be part of your solution.
It sounds like where you are it'd be easy to slip into an addiction of any sort, but try a little experiment. Go a week without it and see how you feel. Spend some time writing your feelings as they come. I think you'll learn a lot about yourself and to what degree you have an addiction or not.
God bless! Feel free to contact me if you want. Here's how I've felt before, may be similar: www.freedomfrompornaddiction.com/… |
Is it normal if i have a porn addiction but have never had sex? I have an online porn addiction (watching porn almost every night, mostly amateur sites) and masturbating to it. I get excited just thinking about it and look forward to it in life? I have no friends anymore and am mostly a loner b/c of anxiety disorder & dislike social interactions. Also, i do not really want friendships anyways. I have depression and see a therapist and on medication, therapist doesn't know about porn habit thought b/c i am too ashamed to say it aloud. IIN what I love about porn is getting watch so many others have sex and the way they do it, etc. but i am afraid of males to do it myself and have never been on a single date & am still a virgin. I am a 30 year old female btw. It seems likely I will never get to have a relationship like other girls I've seen, sigh. what is wrong with me & is there something really wrong with this porn issue or not really? ty. |
You're too ashamed about your porn addiction and that leads to a vicious cycle of neglecting searching for love and affection in the real world.
Porn can only satisfy your immediate needs, but will not allow you to develop a sexual comfort level fully. This is in part because (in your case) you are enjoying porn by yourself in a secluded setting, its self-indulgence and its substituting for an otherwise normal healthy sex life.
Porn isn't like sex either, its more like a drug that stimulates a part of your brain. This is why porn is so addicting. |
Why do I love showing off my wife to other men? I've been posting my wife's topless photos on amateur websites for years, with her permission. I love letting men see how beautiful her big DD breasts are, and I know they love masturbating to her pictures because they email me and tell me how much they love her breasts. Why do I do this? Most men I know don't want other men to EVER see their wife's breasts, but I even ask my wife to wear cleavage tops in public. When she does, I get so excited watching men craning their necks to see her perfect breasts when she bends over and I love seeing them staring at her breasts. (I asked this question once but Yahoo deleted it so I'm rewording it so I won't offend them.) I bought her a bathing suit that her big breasts almost fall out of to wear it on vacation with my bro-in-law and her sister. I loved how my bro-in-law couldn't stop staring at my wife's breasts after he had a few drinks! I would love to let my friends suckle her and masturbate, too, while I masturbate and watch. Is this normal? |
| Hope I don't offend you but it sounds like you like other men more than your wife. You use your wife as a tool to get other men off cause you like watching their reaction. It might just be the way you are wording it but that is what it sounds like to me. Now just wanting other men to envy what you are married to is okay. My husband likes people to envy him because of me, not to the extremes that you do of course. It's okay to admire a woman, that is what we are here for. Women were made to be a compliment to their husbands. But it just really sounds like you get off on the men getting "excited" instead of you getting off watching your wife. |
Does masturbation/ejection have negative effect on your strength during exersices? I am an amateur bodybuilder.How often can I have sex or masturbate?
I need professional answers not personal ideas.
thanks in advance |
Hi
I went out with a pro boxer and we was not allowed to have sex 3 nights before the match - releases endorphins which are muscle relaxants etc, he was not allowed to masturbate either.
I don't know whether bodybuilding is different but I don't think it would have that much affect on your performance.
Sex is also a form or excercise and increases endurance |