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Is my girlfriend trying to turn me into a girl!? Over the past 3 years, I have also... well, the best way to put it is that my body seems to have been becoming very feminine. My skin is very soft, I have a very feminine shaped body, in that fat seems to go to my bum and around my hips, rather than my belly, giving me quite a shapely figure, and most shockingly and I have grown quite large breasts (they are so big that I 'bind' them with bandage, to flatten them). Also, very worryingly, my testicles seem to have become quite small in size, which has been accompanied by what can only be described as erectile dysfunction
To begin with, I thought nothing of it with the first few changes that I was noticing, but after a year or so, I started to get worried, but was too embarrassed to go to the doctors about it. Not long before Christmas, I decided enough was enough, and I decided to go to the doctors, and was told that I had extreme gynocomastia (male breast growth) caused by a hormone imbalance.
I have been prescribed medication which will suppress any estrogen and boost testosterone, but have been told that I will need surgery to remove my breasts, as they will stay no matter what.
So back to my question...
Ok, so I take a couple of types of vitamin tablets each day, and have done for about 3 years (pretty much the period over which these changes have taken place). The other day, I had run out of vitamins, and my girlfriend who normally does the shopping was ill, so I went to do it and bought some more vitamins. When I went to take one, I noticed the tablet was totally different, even though the bottle was the same as before. The very next day, I saw my girlfriend opening one of the spare bottles of vitamins that I bought and replacing the contents with other tablets (which looked the same as before). She didn't notice I had enterer the room so didn't know I saw her. I later found some empty packets of estrogen replacement tablets and anti-androgen tablets (which I read block the affects of testosterone). Both of these, I read, are taken by transsexuals who are changing from male to female!
I don't know what to say to her. I love her, but I can't think of any other explanation than she has been deliberately feeding me sex changing hormones!! All without me knowing!!
Furthermore, what would be her motivation? Is she a lesbian or is it a fantasy or what? When we are having 'fun' together, she often jokingly (or at least she makes out that it's jokingly) makes me wear her lingerie and some of her clothes... which I should point out, my breasts are so big that I spill out of her bras and she is a b-cup! She bought me a c-cup bra for my birthday for a "joke" which seemed to fit actually quite well. It has become quite regular that I play dress up for her, and I've always thought it was light hearted, and to be honest, I quite like it, but to think she was doing it to get thrills out of seeing me actually as a woman worries me a bit!
What should I do, should I confront her? Is this really F*cked up to the point that I should leave her? I mean if it wasn't getting my self esteem so down, it probably wouldn't be too much of an issue for me, but the fact that I have a more feminine body than my own girlfriend kinda embarasses me a little!
Sorry for the rant! | Sounds like a typical cross-dresser's forced femininity fantasy.
I can see playing a cruel prank or plan like that on someone if you only had to trick someone once or a few times at the most.
No one would do that to someone for over three years and not tell anyone. There is no emotional kick or practical reason to so over that span of time.
My advice is to go to the largest BDSM personals on the internet:
www.alt.com
They have forced cross-dresser and forced femininity categories you can check as well as the obvious sub.
As for myself; I have to go to the emergency room to get an emergency refill of my hormones since no one in my area will do it with my Medicaid Insurance.
I have so many real problems like that with hormones and other aspects of trying to survive being myself.
I take what little energy I have left to help other people with similar needs.
I'll even help cross-dressers if they are honest and sincere about a problem.
I do not need my hormone problems infatuatingly trivialized!
Come back with sincere questions and I'll answer them.
I am expecting you to give someone else a best answer rather than let this question go to a vote. People like you don't mind adding more insult to injury (as slight as this one maybe) rather than risk being seen for what they are. Owing up to this and apologizing to the people here has a tampon's chance in a male athlete's lockeroom (to put it infatuatingly - the only way this message might get through to you)! | Advice from men and married women??? My bfd is 33 and divorced, we live together and have a great relationship, I am 25 and he is the 2nd man in my life. I dont have much experience about sexlife. he thinks of me as a shy not very adventurous woman so I need some advices of crazy, wild things to do with him. I am open to it. I know he likes tghis things but he doesnt try them because he is afraid of scaring me away. I have asked him to try but still he is a little conservative about showing what he really knows. So tell me I want to surprise him, show him how good and wild I can be. I have done all the classic stuff, dancing. sexy lingerie, outdoors, etc. But I want to know if there is something more, something great and extreme that men really like. Please give honest opinion, go wild suggest fantasies, Tell me anything form your deep wild instinct. Women tell me what have you done to your men that they like. Thank you!!! | | I bet this is a guy asking this | Men: what are some reasons a man would be less interested or excited about sex with his wife? ...aside from the obvious jokes?
I can't explain our whole marriage in a text box, but if it helps -
*I know that he is not cheating, though he's had some sort of flirty-tiptoeing around with the idea, in the past.
*I'm pretty, curvy w/a little mommy fat, but still get noticed by all types of men. I'm neither a ***** or a wallflower, and I'm generally funny/playful/positive.
*Most of the time, when it's time for relaxation at night, I'm wearing lingerie, or at least shorts/tanks/something non-fugly. I sleep naked.
*I'm pretty open about sex. Not into girls, but there isn't much else I won't do - and I can't think of anything I wouldn't at least get a kick out of trying. He does know this.
*We've talked about sex plenty - or I've tried, anyway. I *like* talking about sex, watching porn together, trying toys or whatnot, reading sex books,trading fantasies, etc. But even if he seems to sometimes enjoy it (usually when drinking/already turned on), he always seems at least a little resistant to it. Almost like it's off-putting, or even boring.
*Yes, I'm good in bed. So is he, and I make that very clear.
*He himself had a non-vanilla sexual past, before me - not too extreme, but plenty of casual sex/etc, so he was not any sort of prude.
*He is overweight, but has always been at least a little overweight. He has no problems getting or keeping erections.
We've been married several years, and had plenty of relationship problems. Mostly, due to his secretiveness - he tends to be passive-aggressive, and the sex thing has always been an issue. Sort of like he closes me out, a little. Stereotypical stuff: he'll watch porn in secret and lie about it, but I'll have to practically beg him to watch it, with me. As mentioned above, he's flirted and sort of teased himself with chatting up or impressing other women, and before me, he was VERY open, sexually, so I know he has the capacity for a larger sex drive, and has probably toyed with fantasies of cheating or being single again, etc, because he's not totally sexually secure or satisfied, at home. I'm not even mad over that, but it's so FRUSTRATING to keep feeling like I'm hitting an invisible wall, with him.
He's not a complete ***, even if this makes him sound like it. And we do have sex. It just sort of feels like nothing *works* - nothing gets him really interested, or makes him want to take the initiative, even though again...that sex drive and those urges are obviously in there, somewhere.
So, men...what can you tell me? Do any of you ever hide your sexual needs from even an open woman who obviously wants you? What freaks men out? What makes you feel more open/less insecure? What the hell does a woman have to do, to REALLY make her husband want her?
Ladies, if you know something helpful, please chime in, but I thought men might be better able to explain Man Secrets. | | From my own hang-ups. Not feeling like I was all the man I wanted to be. That changed most of the relationship into work that couldn't be completed . Talking about it sometimes helped. |
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